WEBVTT 00:00:52.700 --> 00:00:54.700 Water. 00:00:57.418 --> 00:01:04.977 So 00:01:05.010 --> 00:01:13.010 it was a 00:01:15.379 --> 00:01:23.379 take the 00:01:24.808 --> 00:01:32.808 oh who 00:01:34.448 --> 00:01:42.448 to the 00:01:44.698 --> 00:01:52.698 so 00:02:01.168 --> 00:02:09.168 so 00:02:19.210 --> 00:02:27.210 to 00:02:35.610 --> 00:02:43.610 so 00:04:59.189 --> 00:05:01.387 women, 00:05:01.420 --> 00:05:05.486 what is the most common image of women 00:05:05.519 --> 00:05:07.916 to react? 00:05:07.949 --> 00:05:14.395 Tall? Beautiful. I know 00:05:14.428 --> 00:05:21.606 what is the most common image of one large BNSX 660? What if we weren't 00:05:21.639 --> 00:05:27.736 these, these things? Am I pretty? What if we weren't these things? What 00:05:27.769 --> 00:05:33.637 the hell crying about then? Would we be seen for who we actually are or 00:05:33.670 --> 00:05:38.955 what we would look like? Why? Why are most women unconsciously consuming 00:05:38.988 --> 00:05:44.467 their lives with trying to become incredibly beautiful? I'm a f I'll never 00:05:44.500 --> 00:05:50.127 be brilliant. I have a fat beauty equals acceptance. 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:55.656 Women want to be accepted. I need to, I need to die. 00:05:55.689 --> 00:06:00.286 Is this why we consume ourselves with dieting? How many calories are in 00:06:00.319 --> 00:06:07.745 that exercise? I need to work it out. That's just water weight cosmetics 00:06:07.778 --> 00:06:11.406 surgery. Does this make me like it tighter? And for some of us 00:06:11.439 --> 00:06:17.765 reconstructive surgery, I'm to wrinkling swe 00:06:17.798 --> 00:06:24.067 outer beauty is emphasized so much that inner beauty seems almost petty. 00:06:24.100 --> 00:06:28.515 We learn this at an early age by young girls playing with dolls that have 00:06:28.548 --> 00:06:33.575 unattainable figures, unattainable figures, young girls believe they can 00:06:33.608 --> 00:06:38.486 look like this. They say here anymore size hairdresser and want to look 00:06:38.519 --> 00:06:41.705 like, 00:06:41.738 --> 00:06:47.846 am I pretty? If only I could look like, am I pretty? You're scaring it. 00:06:47.879 --> 00:06:53.366 The email of ladies graduate that female athletes are often forced to 00:06:53.399 --> 00:06:57.416 maintain that email of idea or image 00:06:57.449 --> 00:07:04.805 activity on a seven year old was told to lose weight, a seven year old or 00:07:04.838 --> 00:07:09.536 she could become a prima ballerina. A seven year old was told to lose 00:07:09.569 --> 00:07:11.817 weight. 00:07:11.850 --> 00:07:19.850 8% of girls are dieting. I had as I need to diet that was 8% of four. A 00:07:19.949 --> 00:07:25.447 girls are die of. That 00:07:25.480 --> 00:07:32.476 was these same young girls as well as the rest of his women. Also see 00:07:32.509 --> 00:07:37.387 images of models thin, beautiful model, thin media and advertising. 00:07:37.420 --> 00:07:41.967 They're like, yeah, I'm so 00:07:42.000 --> 00:07:47.336 OK. However, not all of these models are real women. Some have had 00:07:47.369 --> 00:07:51.856 digitally enhanced touch ups and even others are just pieces of other 00:07:51.889 --> 00:07:53.895 women 00:07:53.928 --> 00:07:59.467 can't get him out of here. This implies that not one whole woman was good 00:07:59.500 --> 00:08:03.776 enough, not good enough, just pieces of them pieces, pieces make up the 00:08:03.809 --> 00:08:09.127 perfect woman. Perfect woman. Does this mean does this mean real, real 00:08:09.160 --> 00:08:16.717 whole women aren't good enough? Good enough. I'll never need a 00:08:16.750 --> 00:08:21.515 get rid of that or 00:08:21.548 --> 00:08:29.067 women have shoes. It's so it's so it's society, society has made us be our 00:08:29.100 --> 00:08:34.436 own worst critic. I really look like that dying hair colored contacted 00:08:34.469 --> 00:08:41.717 surgery. Society has made us be our own worst critic, our own worst critic. 00:08:41.750 --> 00:08:49.217 What's this jiggly stuff? Our own worst critic. No one is perfect. We are 00:08:49.250 --> 00:08:54.125 always trying to alter our appearance in one way or another. 00:08:54.158 --> 00:08:59.505 No one is perfect pieces. Pieces make up a perfect woman. No one is 00:08:59.538 --> 00:09:07.538 perfect. However, everyone wants perfection. Wish to see you 00:09:09.700 --> 00:09:13.866 because we are not perfect. We will never see perfection staring back at 00:09:13.899 --> 00:09:17.047 us. Do I really look like that? 00:09:17.080 --> 00:09:20.486 Do I really look like that? 00:09:20.519 --> 00:09:25.816 It right now. This makes us mad because in a woman's life, if you are 00:09:25.849 --> 00:09:29.746 perfect and beautiful, you are more likely to go somewhere and lie too 00:09:29.779 --> 00:09:34.356 young to look this up. I'm too young. Why doesn't he look at me? So it 00:09:34.389 --> 00:09:39.717 seems in order for women to be happy, we must also be beautiful, beautiful 00:09:39.750 --> 00:09:42.856 beauty equals acceptance. 00:09:42.889 --> 00:09:48.907 This is an s one because we are never beautiful in our minds. So we are 00:09:48.940 --> 00:09:56.940 never ever pull my corset tighter. I'm so ugly. Beauty equals acceptance. 00:09:58.558 --> 00:10:00.558 Women want to be accepted. 00:10:02.440 --> 00:10:07.946 We are eternally seeking beauty. So we eternally seek happy, have your 00:10:07.979 --> 00:10:12.856 babies. We are, we are eternally seeking beauty. So we eternally seek 00:10:12.889 --> 00:10:17.765 happiness, eternally seek happiness. 00:10:17.798 --> 00:10:20.946 Do I really look like that? 00:10:20.979 --> 00:10:28.775 Brilliant? If only I could look like her made her be her own worst critic. 00:10:28.808 --> 00:10:34.547 Society has made us be our own worst critic I don't want to go for, I'll 00:10:34.580 --> 00:10:42.580 never, I'll never be pretty enough for my horses here. Am I pretty 00:10:43.119 --> 00:10:45.395 women? 00:10:45.428 --> 00:10:49.297 What is the most common image of women? 00:10:49.330 --> 00:10:52.316 What if we were? 00:10:52.349 --> 00:11:00.349 Ok. I've been a about you there, bre and sexy then would we be seen for 00:11:02.190 --> 00:11:04.895 what we live? I like 00:11:04.928 --> 00:11:11.765 no one is perfect. No one do I really look like that. Pretty am I pretty? 00:11:11.798 --> 00:11:18.385 No one is perfect. I really look like that. Pretty women are good enough. 00:11:18.418 --> 00:11:22.787 Why are most women unconsciously consuming their lives with trying to 00:11:22.820 --> 00:11:26.856 become an incredibly beautiful 00:11:26.889 --> 00:11:29.265 music, acceptance, 00:11:29.298 --> 00:11:34.385 beauty equals acceptance and no one, no one wants women want to be 00:11:34.418 --> 00:11:37.967 accepted 00:11:38.000 --> 00:11:41.797 two hands. It was beautiful. 00:11:41.830 --> 00:11:45.557 OK 00:11:45.590 --> 00:11:48.316 to be accepted 00:11:48.349 --> 00:11:51.375 there 00:11:51.408 --> 00:11:58.167 himself right about. So your B is in on our baby. You know, you see our 00:11:58.200 --> 00:12:04.599 life. We are eternally seeking beauty so we eternally seek happiness.